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When you decide to settle down... DO NOT live within DROP IN distance of anyone that you hang out with (her friends or yours) if you can help it. Make it a chore for people to get to where you live, you and your fam will have a lot more peace and less people in your business.
I will say that's one of the reasons my wife and I were able to handle our ish on our own without people dropping in at inopportune times... like when she was upset or I was upset or something.
Plus if they have bad azz kids... you don't want your kids around their kids...
yes, people will say that you think you're too good for everybody... but that's their problem. You drive to where they're at, lol. Don't have 'em hanging out at your spot gossiping and bringing random people you don't know all up in your place because you live so close. Go and sit up at their house if necessary.
Live at least 40 minutes from everybody... including her mama.
Literally put on a timer and set it for 40 minutes, get on the Freeway and drive until it dings...
... gotta base it on where you work too though... if you have to drop off kids to a family member... gotta factor that in too... but LIVE FAR OUT if you can.
When you decide to settle down... DO NOT live within DROP IN distance of anyone that you hang out with (her friends or yours) if you can help it. Make it a chore for people to get to where you live, you and your fam will have a lot more peace and less people in your business.
I will say that's one of the reasons my wife and I were able to handle our ish on our own without people dropping in at inopportune times... like when she was upset or I was upset or something.
Plus if they have bad azz kids... you don't want your kids around their kids...
yes, people will say that you think you're too good for everybody... but that's their problem. You drive to where they're at, lol. Don't have 'em hanging out at your spot gossiping and bringing random people you don't know all up in your place because you live so close. Go and sit up at their house if necessary.
Live at least 40 minutes from everybody... including her mama.
Literally put on a timer and set it for 40 minutes, get on the Freeway and drive until it dings...
... gotta base it on where you work too though... if you have to drop off kids to a family member... gotta factor that in too... but LIVE FAR OUT if you can.
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