Ian,
im saying "they are working you" (yes Ian, they being the media) because much of the thoughts that express as your own eerily fit the usual word for word montras of the people who are clearly "taken over". your right in that i don't know you from a can of paint, but your arguments sound very familiar.
as far as the "the only way not to be seen as homophobic is to be gay" line. yes again, the media.
i really doubt you read anything past the title of the blog entry because if you did you wouldn't be insulted. it goes on to talk about pretty much what this is about.
** the following is key **
people don't like to really dig in to things when it comes to knowing certain characteristics (such as racism).
there are a number of things that can be racist (redlining housing for minorities for example was a detramentally racist act that partly accounts for the existence of the ghettos today) but its much easier to label things for the masses in a way that can be identified without much consideration.
after a while, the idea of a racist person goes from someone who truly believes in racial heiarchy to simply someone who blurts the N word out over an open mic. when someone comes along with a TRUE moment of racism (like a local judge in seattle who wrote about how all blacks have a crime problem) it gets passed over.
this happens in the gay rights movement as well.
instead of talking about the evils of prop 8, dispelling myths about gays in the military, or anything else substantial to the movement, we get hillary duff and wanda sykes telling us not to use the word gay to describe stuff.
please tell me you get me now.
don't think i was making any assumptions on you, wasn't the case. i was just going against your argument.
the bottom line is you can't fight what you percieve as intolerance (which is really just dislike) with "Tyranny Tolerance", its the equivalent of forcing two kids who don't like each other to shake hands, it won't fix anything.