^^^This is why you need a good monitoring chain. Lots of cars have shotty systems, trust the room you mix in, not the stuff you play it back in. I never cutoff nothing below nothing, no compression or EQ. All I adjust when making beats is the volume and Pan. I never run into any of these problems.
When I used to EQ, Compress, use bass enhancement, cutoff frequencies, ect. I had these types of problems. Mainly because I did all that when I didn't know what I was doing. Now I'm aware of what I'm doing, aware of the way compression works, understand eqing, and that your low freq should be at 79.7hz(or whatever, forget the exact #) and only adjust vol and pan. The volume of a kick(especially 808) or bass being lowered can fix alot more than most people will ever believe. Sometimes making them quieter gives you the low end you're looking for that bleeds when you turn them up for more presence.
My mixes sound better than ever before simply because i use my monitoring to find the perfect kick, place in the mix, and volume to begin with.