Girlfriend Training

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axs said:

Struggle? Ever actually tried to maintain a long-term relationship? Now that's a f*ckin' struggle!
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There's a difference between struggle and futility. For me relationships are futile. It's OK though, I've learned to deal with it.
 
You may think to yourself that I'm a pathetic coldhearted individual for thinking the way I do
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Never in a million yrs would i even attempt to presume i knew u any where near enough to think anything of you never mind the above.

I wasnt judging you on your comments regarding relationships i just find it interesting when i read things that are almost pretty much the way i used to think.

I used to think that relationships stunt growth but know through yrs and yrs of trial and error i know that without my life partner i would never descover half the things i now know about myself. A relationship IS NOT a game of 2 halves it should be about 2 equal people who feel attracted to one another on a level that far surpasses sexual attraction and this mundane, boring, self critical technological freak of a time we live in.

~Myself and my partner bond on a level that scares me sometimes as i know we have been together before in another time/place existence, but hey thats another thread.

Humanist:sing:
 
Struggling may have a significant impact on how you grow, but there's really no need to go out an look for for a reason to struggle. There's enough difficulty around every corner and I seriously doubt that anyone would intentionaly dump girlfriends to make life more of a struggle. Even in the name of art.

People may be selfish, but its very rare that anyone is intentionally cruel. Maybe ignorant, or unaware of the pain they are inflicitng. So I doubt you act the way you do out of cruelty. If you're constantly repeating the same pattern and causing yourself and others harm there is a lesson there that you haven't learnt yet. It's that simple.

Fumbling, It seems that your current reasoning on relationships has been floating around in your mind for quite a while. But you're still suffering... so there must be a flaw in your reasoning. Contrary to popular belief suffering is not that natural state for humans, or any other creature. Suffering is there to alert you to something that is wrong with your body, or wrong with your emotional state, or perhaps something that is wrong in the way you live your life.
 
Hogus,
You make so much sense that I hate and love you for it. I'd never thought of it that way. Your words have seriously made me rethink things. Then again, I'm really drunk right now and everything is profound at this moment. However, I feel when I wake up I will ponder your post more. I'll let u know when the pain of sobriety kicks in.

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wow! a post that started off as a joke got serious! it's usually the other way around isn't it?
 
Hogus said:
Struggling may have a significant impact on how you grow, but there's really no need to go out an look for for a reason to struggle. There's enough difficulty around every corner and I seriously doubt that anyone would intentionaly dump girlfriends to make life more of a struggle. Even in the name of art.

People may be selfish, but its very rare that anyone is intentionally cruel. Maybe ignorant, or unaware of the pain they are inflicitng. So I doubt you act the way you do out of cruelty. If you're constantly repeating the same pattern and causing yourself and others harm there is a lesson there that you haven't learnt yet. It's that simple.

Fumbling, It seems that your current reasoning on relationships has been floating around in your mind for quite a while. But you're still suffering... so there must be a flaw in your reasoning. Contrary to popular belief suffering is not that natural state for humans, or any other creature. Suffering is there to alert you to something that is wrong with your body, or wrong with your emotional state, or perhaps something that is wrong in the way you live your life.
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Wow.... that's so totally deep and cool yet makes so much sense man. What are you, a psychology major?

Seriously tho, i am haveing trouble with my fiancee not only about music (she pretends to understand but like all women, she is jealous of my time making music) but in general as well. I am thinking of useing/quoting some of the stuff you said in here. How much do you charge? ;)

Thanx man.
 
They SHouldn't be Jealous of you Making Music! I have the Same Deal Here. :cry:

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Holy smokes,I cant believe this thread is still going.......and going strong.....I thought you people might want an update on my relationship.Good News......The last 4 months I was unable to make beats,because i was living in an apartment,so I spent that time hanging out w/ the wifey.She was quite happy during this time(i wonder why....hehe),but now she owes me big-time.We had a big talk about things,and I basically explained to her that I am practically enrolled in school(with the amount of research,and practice i put into my music)Now i cant see any girl complaining about her boyfriend going to school.Now she sees it from my point of view,we are somewhat happier(though still not perfect)I will now spend the next few months in my studio taking advantage of some of my "owed" time......hehehe

thanks all who answered this thread,I found it a most enjoyable read...........peace FBZ
 
Awesome! Sounds Pretty Good. Now Get Up In There, and Get Those Beat BangN Again.

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