Ease into it
I am not understanding your post either.
In the interest of risk taking, let me take a crack at a possible spin on your question:
You are a bedroom DJ and feel good about what you do there, but, wonder what you would be like at a party? Perhaps you have never dj'd for a group and was curious how you might perform in a "party" environment?
If this matches your situation, then read on... Otherwise, skip this post and try the next one
Some ideas I have to ease into this situation follow:
If you have a friend that is also into the music, invite him over and play dj while sharing music with each other.
If if you have a friend that that also DJs, then play the game where he/she plays a record, then you mix out of that record, then he/she mixes out of your record, etc.
If you are doing good DJing in your bedroom, then all you need to do is get over your "stage fears" pnemomen.
Once you get comfortable playing in front of other people and relax and be yourself (just like in your bedroom) you will find that you will be invited to parties to be the music person
I hope this helps.
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