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Always remember that your girl will never tell you "everything" so don't worry about finding "everything" out.
FACT...
let that shyt GO...
3somes, girl-on-girl action, # of partners...
let it go...
INSECURE?
let it go...
Always remember that your girl will never tell you "everything" so don't worry about finding "everything" out.
Playing hard to get (ex: girls don't really like dudes who chase them in reality. If you game a girl well enough to get her attracted to you, she will not play hard to get with you, it's nonsense. When they play hard to get, if you fall for it, you might still get some ass from her but she won't respect you and it won't be as fun. If she ignores you, ignore her back until she gets back to you. If she doesn't get back to you, you move on)
how you deal with women depends on what you want from them. If you want to just bang em you deal with them one way, vs if you want to be in a relationship with them.
the things I've seen from women over the past few years have really opened my eyes
They WANT a dude to push up on em
Ok...
there's three types of women
Money hungry biatches
Nymphomaniacs
Ones that want to get married
Or maybe a combination of those
https://www.futureproducers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=306371&page=2talking to people (some people call it networking) is not really that different than talking to chicks. very similar methods.
When you talk to chicks or net working:
They must feel safe. (don't be creepy or threatening), If they think you are a threat or a nut. nothing is going to get accomplished.
You don't want to show you whole hand at once, play it cool. you may not want to drop your spades first. you may not want to trump the first few plays. she might know what you got, cool, but still keep your pace.
Be respectful. meaning treat them like a person. don't kiss their ass or be disrespectful.
Look good, you don't need to be a suit. you just need to look good. your appearance is your first word.
Be respectful to their company/friends. if they are in a conversation, you might want to choose a different time to approach. But this depends on the conversation and body language.
Be respectful to everyone in the area. don't be yelling at the door guy because you are not on the list, or the bartender for messing up your drink for the second time. people will judge you on how you act to others. people are more observant than people think. people will zero in on something that is off, like you acting a fool.
Be introduced by a mutual is always the best entrance. it works great with women, when you are introduced to them by their friend. same thing with people in the industry.
Don't bother people you don't know who are upset, unless your game is really tight. when people are pissed they do not respond well to new things, like you. but if you got game, you can flip their anger into trust for you. but this is a slippery slope and can easily blow up in your face. instigating drama for your means, is risky. i don't recommend it
If you are in a club or a venue that is selling liquor. offer the person you are talking to a drink. don be cliche and offer the drink first. wait until you are in mid-conversation and nonchalantly offer that person a drink and order one for yourself. this relaxes the person, even if they don't order. but if you start the conversation with "Can I buy you a drink" it will make you look cheesy.
Be confident and relaxed! always!! people don't trust people who are fidgety and nervous. If you are uneasy, that will spread.
Be honest. Don't bullshyt!! people can pick up your exaggerations easier than you think. Don't act like you are rich if you are not. In general be honest about yourself. but don't reveal more than you have too. have discretion on the info you give out. don't mislead people. when people feel like you are BSing they will start to tune you out.
draw a crowd, being alone is never good. watching from the corner, will keep you there. You want people to gravitate to you. when you draw people to you, you don't always need to go to them. How do you draw a crowd? easy. be charismatic and welcoming. Be interesting and genuine.
Be humble, everyone is equal. you are not special, not at all. your mom lied! you are not the shyt. you just do what come naturally, no big deal. you are just lucky and god (any god you choose, or lack there of if that is what you believe) blessed you with a talent that allows you to enjoy your life and to help other people.
Be Politically Correct. Don't say anything that might insult them. like asking Common why his last album wasn't as good as BE? use common sense. (no pun intended) you don't need to go to the extreme and call white people caucasian, or black people african american. just don't be ignorant.
When they want to be private, leave them alone.
Be you! You are not an actor!
This is good for now, just my networking/pickup tips
Never ask a girl you're trying to get with if she has a man. Let her tell you on her own. You put her in a bad spot by asking.
Beware of a FATAL ATTRACTION.
Truth is. Stay out of clubs.