Try rolling the snares into the kick, just get crazy with it and shave your head, start slapping people in the face with hot dirty mops and pushing old elderly people into the f**king bushes with a 3/4 feel to it. That should help.
The "compound" time signatures (6/8, 9/8, 12/8, 6/4, 9/4, 12/4, etc.) are used a lot less than "simple" time signatures (2/2, 2/4, 4/4, 4/8, 4/16, etc.) in popular genres.
With that said and to the point of your question: 3/4 will have the snares/ claps/ rim shots/ whatever usually on the "and" of the beat. So, Boom-pa, Boom-pa, Boom-pa. "Boom" being the downbeats (kick) beats 1,2,3 and "pa" being the up beats (snares). So, another way to think of it is: 1 AND 2 AND Three AND. "And" being the snare.
THIS IS ONLY ONE SUGGESTION. There are millions of different ways to syncopate the beat in any time signature and you just have to experiment. Happy producing.