I'm a still help you cuz it took me a long time to figure this out and once I did I became a beast the beats on my soundcloud are just throw aways that didn't get sold but here I will help you
on the snare say 4 then count 1 2 3 4 when you say the next 4 you should be saying it on the next snare
every time you say a number use a tap tempo app for iPhone and tape on it so like this
snare 4!
1 tap
2 tap
3 tap
snare 4! tap
do this for about 2 beats and you should get the tempo