I don't think anybody said limiters always kill tracks. Some people really like the sound of limiters. There are whole genres that rely on pushing limiters to their *ahem* limits.
If anyone says a limiter always kills or ruins a track (as if to say limiters inherently ruin music no matter who uses it or what kind of song they use it on), they are just trying to sound like an engineer to get credibility. A lot of people that don't respect music like to talk about dynamics to pretend they respect music. And for every dude that says they hate over compressed music, there's a bunch of people that love it and don't even know it. I always hear people saying "If they heard dynamic music, it would blow their minds!" Not true. You could play dynamic music for a lot of skrillex fans and they would probably hate it. And whether or not you like skrillex is truly irrelevant, because he has a massive following of people that love him and a massive following of people that hate him. If you make the music you like, with the dynamics you like, and convey the emotion behind it, there will be people that like it.
But, surprisingly, an engineer or producer is not one single person with a single set of morals. Rick Rubin doesn't record the same way Bruce Swedien does, but there are people that like both Michael Jackson and Run D-M-C. Anais Mitchell won't be as compressed as Kendrick Lamar, but I honestly consider their tracks equally good.
I listen to really compressed music, and I listen to really dynamic music. Just depends on my mood.
I'm not sure if this is true, but when I was talking to a local producer and showed him "Coronus, The Terminator" by Flying Lotus, he said that lotus was purposely driving the kick into the limiter and distorting it. No idea if that's true, but it's not unheard of to use a limiter the same way someone would use saturation.
So it totally depends what you're going for. This is art after all. Limiting can sound good in context, Singing out of pitch can sound good in context, dissonance can sound good in context, and me making out with a mannequin in front of a microphone can sound good in context (be right back).